Estrangement as Arrested Development

Family estrangement often begins in anger, resentment, and confusion and these emotions can be necessary stages of separation and clarity. But when we remain there indefinitely, growth can stall. This piece explores how moving toward acceptance — not forgiveness, not forced compassion, and not reconciliation — allows personal development to continue with or without the relationship.

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James Kerr

As a therapist for over a decade, I have counselled many individuals to terminate toxic relationships.

I have chosen to specialize in this field because I have first hand experience both as an Estranged Adult Child and as a Parent.

I also have experience of being Estranged from a partner and understand the steps, sacrifice and healing needed to reconcile to become a family again. READ MORE...